Grow through what you go through!

Approaching the end of the year has had me in deep thought, reflecting back upon the year and what a shit show it’s been……..

I really had high hopes for this year….well when I say high hopes – I mean I was actually convinced this year would be ‘THE’ year. I guess, we all say that at some point right?

This year has been a bit of a nothing year. Stagnant. Repetitive. Same. Old. Shit. Don’t get me wrong I have had some good times, but I’d say the downs kinda out weighed them.

I’ve faced things I wish I hadn’t had too and have had many battles and challenges thrown my way. I’ve been hurt, shat on, let down (the list goes on, lol)

But looking back now in this moment, I wouldn’t change any of it. Because this year has made me grow. Personally and emotionally. It has reminded me that there is NOTHING in this life that we cannot get over nor through.

I have learnt to not allow the shit I might face to affect who I am negatively. Instead I will withdraw the lesson from it and positively allow it to change me, for the better. I will not allow things to break me. Instead I will grow through what I go through.

This year has taught me traits about myself that I didn’t even know I had and that I am much stronger than I ever gave myself credit for.

The shit of this year hasn’t defeated me. Instead it’s made me stand taller, laugh louder, love harder and feel stronger. This year has been a lesson and I hope next year will be the game changer.

Moral of the story is; We are not always dealt the cards we want in life, but even the shit ones end up benefiting us in some way. Even if you don’t see it yet.

Published by Life Of Lil

Hello lovely's thanks for stumbling by. If you are a returning reader, thanks for your continuous loving. If you are new here, welcome to the show (and again, thanks for the love) So you are probably on this page to find out the nitty & gritty of me eh? As much as I would love to brag that I am this really cool chick who occasionally fire breathes on the weekends for fun, that would be an awful not even funny lie.  Gosh, introductions- they are kinda awkward huh? No pressure.  My name is Leanne Lilly (more often than not, known and addressed as 'Lil') I am a 25 year old woman on a mission to sprinkle positivity, empowerment, fun and realness onto my fellow human beings.  I have a passion for writing and a love of over sharing with my straight up sally attitude, I embrace my voice & have no fear of sharing it. I guess I have just always had a thing for giving my opinion & expressing my advice. I am an over sensitive, big-hearted, cry baby who is majorly compassionate, understanding and giving, but who also has daily breakdowns, mood swings, & take's no shit. But I will always speak my truth. I suppose there is many aspects to this personality.  With that said it will be no suprise that this is a Mish-Mash Life Style Blog. A Blog that is home to everything and everything. You wouldn't find me in a specific genre, because I do not think you could tie my life down (let alone my personality) to one genre. This is just a Diary if you like of a truth-speaking, real talking girl. It follows my life, my feelings, my funny side (yes, I find myself funny) and all the shit that goes down in-between. And you will probably find a bit of TMI. Often. Sorry in advance.  Disclaimer: I am NOT a grammar goddess, so don't get all grammar police on my ass. (Pretty please) P.s... When I was 7 Year's old, I asked my mum what she thought I would be when I was older "A writer or something to do with writing" - I was FUMING. I wanted to be a pop star. Years on, here I am passionately writing away & loving it. Moral of the story: Mum's are always right. 

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