Stop giving a f*ck about what other people think!

Caring what others think. We are all guilty of it. We all have a habit of letting the opinions of others affect us and influence our choices and decisions in life. Fearful of others reactions, what they might think. Afraid of being judged. The status quo, because we have all become accustomed to think that way. And to be quite frank – it’s ridiculous.

What you are doing is holding yourself back, limiting yourself, denying your truth and living in fear!

Others around you do NOT need to understand nor accept or even like your decisions and choices in life, because guess what, it is YOUR LIFE. You do not need the approval of others. The only persons approval you need is your own.

Do not be scared to speak your truth, on how you feel or on what you think. You was given a voice to be heard, regardless if anybody else agrees or accepts what you say.

It is completely necessary to be selfish in life, to focus on yourself, your own wants your own needs. You cannot go around selling yourself short.

LET PEOPLE JUDGE YOU. There opinion is merely just an opinion. It has no affect or impact on your life, unless you allow it too!
Life becomes a heck lot easier when you stop giving a fuck what people think of you and start living for yourself.

It is okay to stop doing what’s right by others and start doing what’s right by you, putting yourself first is a crucial part of life and a crucial part of your happiness.

The next time you go to say something and stop yourself – remember you have a voice to express how YOU feel.

The next time you disregard your ideas, your dreams, your passion – too afraid that other people will not support you, or will have negative opinions – remember you was put on this earth to follow your heart and to achieve what YOU want to achieve. Remember real failure is when you do not even try.

This is YOUR life. You are completely free to live it how you wish. Do the job YOU want, date who YOU want, dress how YOU want, say what YOU think, say no when YOU want to say no, say yes when YOU want to say yes. Do every single thing that you fully 100% want to do. No second guessing. No questioning. No doubting.

When you do not seek or need approval,you are at your most powerful.

Take ownership of your life, do what is best for you, have fun, follow your truth and embrace what sets your soul on fire. And most importantly do not ever stop doing YOUR thing.

This is YOUR life!

Published by Life Of Lil

Hello lovely's thanks for stumbling by. If you are a returning reader, thanks for your continuous loving. If you are new here, welcome to the show (and again, thanks for the love) So you are probably on this page to find out the nitty & gritty of me eh? As much as I would love to brag that I am this really cool chick who occasionally fire breathes on the weekends for fun, that would be an awful not even funny lie.  Gosh, introductions- they are kinda awkward huh? No pressure.  My name is Leanne Lilly (more often than not, known and addressed as 'Lil') I am a 25 year old woman on a mission to sprinkle positivity, empowerment, fun and realness onto my fellow human beings.  I have a passion for writing and a love of over sharing with my straight up sally attitude, I embrace my voice & have no fear of sharing it. I guess I have just always had a thing for giving my opinion & expressing my advice. I am an over sensitive, big-hearted, cry baby who is majorly compassionate, understanding and giving, but who also has daily breakdowns, mood swings, & take's no shit. But I will always speak my truth. I suppose there is many aspects to this personality.  With that said it will be no suprise that this is a Mish-Mash Life Style Blog. A Blog that is home to everything and everything. You wouldn't find me in a specific genre, because I do not think you could tie my life down (let alone my personality) to one genre. This is just a Diary if you like of a truth-speaking, real talking girl. It follows my life, my feelings, my funny side (yes, I find myself funny) and all the shit that goes down in-between. And you will probably find a bit of TMI. Often. Sorry in advance.  Disclaimer: I am NOT a grammar goddess, so don't get all grammar police on my ass. (Pretty please) P.s... When I was 7 Year's old, I asked my mum what she thought I would be when I was older "A writer or something to do with writing" - I was FUMING. I wanted to be a pop star. Years on, here I am passionately writing away & loving it. Moral of the story: Mum's are always right. 

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