Stop allowing other people to control your happiness! 

Happiness & being happy. Something we all want, something we all need and something we all should have and be. 

Yet so many of us are allowing others to control our happiness. We allow other peoples actions to affect us and our moods. 
Yes life comes with it’s challenges, and it is not always going to be easy and unfortuently we cannot control other people or situations – but what we can control is the reaction in which we give. 
When tough times arise, you can choose to allow that to consume you & focus on the negative of it, which usually ends up making you feel worse or you can allow yourself to be happy and fight through the hard shit. Which, in the long run will make you feel better. People and situations are powerless without our reactions. 
We are all to good at making excuses, blaming others, and situations – when the truth is, it is only making us unhappy because we are allowing it to. 

You are allowed to feel down, to feel upset when bad times arise, after all you are only human, but you cannot dwell on and only focus on the tough times and then moan that you are in fact unhappy. 

Unhappiness attracts more unhappiness. It’s the law of attraction. What you give your energy to you attract to yourself. So focus more on the positives & on what truly makes you smile inside. 

You cannot depend on someone else to make you happy. Happiness is something you create yourself. It comes from within. There is good in everything, all you have to do is be willing to find that and focus on it. Never allow your happiness to be controlled by something you cannot control. 
You need to accept and learn that things are not always going to go our way. We cannot always depend on other people to respect us or our feelings. We cannot always have it all. But that does not limit our happiness, or mean we cannot be happy at all. 
Happiness starts with you. Not with your job, not with your relationships, not with your money – but with YOU. 
Happiness is the most important thing in this life, without it you do not have much. 

Never allow somebody else to dictate your happiness and Never allow somebody to remove the smile from your face. 

You have the power. You are in control of your life. And you are the decider on your happiness, after all – Happiness is a very personal thing, and it has nothing to do with anyone else! 
Whatever you decide to do in life, make sure it makes YOU happy. 

Published by Life Of Lil

Hello lovely's thanks for stumbling by. If you are a returning reader, thanks for your continuous loving. If you are new here, welcome to the show (and again, thanks for the love) So you are probably on this page to find out the nitty & gritty of me eh? As much as I would love to brag that I am this really cool chick who occasionally fire breathes on the weekends for fun, that would be an awful not even funny lie.  Gosh, introductions- they are kinda awkward huh? No pressure.  My name is Leanne Lilly (more often than not, known and addressed as 'Lil') I am a 25 year old woman on a mission to sprinkle positivity, empowerment, fun and realness onto my fellow human beings.  I have a passion for writing and a love of over sharing with my straight up sally attitude, I embrace my voice & have no fear of sharing it. I guess I have just always had a thing for giving my opinion & expressing my advice. I am an over sensitive, big-hearted, cry baby who is majorly compassionate, understanding and giving, but who also has daily breakdowns, mood swings, & take's no shit. But I will always speak my truth. I suppose there is many aspects to this personality.  With that said it will be no suprise that this is a Mish-Mash Life Style Blog. A Blog that is home to everything and everything. You wouldn't find me in a specific genre, because I do not think you could tie my life down (let alone my personality) to one genre. This is just a Diary if you like of a truth-speaking, real talking girl. It follows my life, my feelings, my funny side (yes, I find myself funny) and all the shit that goes down in-between. And you will probably find a bit of TMI. Often. Sorry in advance.  Disclaimer: I am NOT a grammar goddess, so don't get all grammar police on my ass. (Pretty please) P.s... When I was 7 Year's old, I asked my mum what she thought I would be when I was older "A writer or something to do with writing" - I was FUMING. I wanted to be a pop star. Years on, here I am passionately writing away & loving it. Moral of the story: Mum's are always right. 

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