The Secret to having it all is knowing you already do!


“We attract to our life whatever we give our attention, energy and focus to. Whether positive or negative” – Michael Losier

Have you ever noticed that when negative things happen in your life, more crap follows? You cannot seem to get away from it, its one thing after the other and it all smacks you in the face at once.

I used to blame it on the famous “it happens in 3’s” – we have all heard of that saying right? Maybe it is the 3 syndrome that is unfolding or maybe it may be the attitude we are giving out? I am not saying your asking for these things to happen to you, why would we ask for shit? But what once something crappy happens to us our mood alters and we cannot see past it. 

Let’s face it, we are hardly going to be extremely grateful nor clapping for joy when shit is thrown our way. However, as soon as that negative frame of mind consumes us, you bet ya all you seem to be able to notice is the bad things that are happening. Things piss us off one after the other. It is impossible to see anything good when were trapped in a negative mindset. 

Sure life is life & shit is going to happen from time to time whether we like it or not. But when a negative thing happens in our life we can choose to let it consume our mindset & mood or we can deal with it and keep focused on our positive outlook.

We attract what we’re given. By our vibe, our outlook, our mentality, our attitude. Really, we do! So whatever you want in life, you can attract it! 

So just how we attract more negativity, we can just as much attract more positive and beneficial things in our lives. The more good we see, the more good will happen. 

The more  you visualize the things you want, and you truly believe you will get – You will start to see these things manifest.  Thoughts become things, what you see in your mind you can hold in your hand. Everything you want is out there, it is not out of reach. Do not lose focus or sight. 

I have witnessed it work for other people, and I have witnessed it work for myself. It is so simple, yet so many of us find it so hard to actually stay positive and that is why people give up on it. 

But if your focused, if you know what you want, and determined to get it, you WILL get it. What you think, you create. What you feel, you attract. What you imagine, you become. 

The law of attraction never fails. The universe gives us what we need & want when we are ready.So be ready, have an open mind, take the opportunities that come your way, take the negative as pinch of salt, and have belief that everything you want, you can get. Eliminate all doubt and implement all faith. 

In the end, the only person that holds us back in lives is ourselves. We are in control of our life’s, our thoughts, our moods, our vibes. 

So be careful what you are attracting – make sure it is everything you want and more because it is possible. So go into this year with a positive open mind , and know what you want, because you never know what the universe is about to hand you next. 

The secret to having it all is knowing you already do.

2017, let’s do this!  

©2017 Sugarcoatednothings 

Published by Life Of Lil

Hello lovely's thanks for stumbling by. If you are a returning reader, thanks for your continuous loving. If you are new here, welcome to the show (and again, thanks for the love) So you are probably on this page to find out the nitty & gritty of me eh? As much as I would love to brag that I am this really cool chick who occasionally fire breathes on the weekends for fun, that would be an awful not even funny lie.  Gosh, introductions- they are kinda awkward huh? No pressure.  My name is Leanne Lilly (more often than not, known and addressed as 'Lil') I am a 25 year old woman on a mission to sprinkle positivity, empowerment, fun and realness onto my fellow human beings.  I have a passion for writing and a love of over sharing with my straight up sally attitude, I embrace my voice & have no fear of sharing it. I guess I have just always had a thing for giving my opinion & expressing my advice. I am an over sensitive, big-hearted, cry baby who is majorly compassionate, understanding and giving, but who also has daily breakdowns, mood swings, & take's no shit. But I will always speak my truth. I suppose there is many aspects to this personality.  With that said it will be no suprise that this is a Mish-Mash Life Style Blog. A Blog that is home to everything and everything. You wouldn't find me in a specific genre, because I do not think you could tie my life down (let alone my personality) to one genre. This is just a Diary if you like of a truth-speaking, real talking girl. It follows my life, my feelings, my funny side (yes, I find myself funny) and all the shit that goes down in-between. And you will probably find a bit of TMI. Often. Sorry in advance.  Disclaimer: I am NOT a grammar goddess, so don't get all grammar police on my ass. (Pretty please) P.s... When I was 7 Year's old, I asked my mum what she thought I would be when I was older "A writer or something to do with writing" - I was FUMING. I wanted to be a pop star. Years on, here I am passionately writing away & loving it. Moral of the story: Mum's are always right. 

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