I have no desire to fit in

I used to be the girl that would compare herself and her life to everybody else's. I used to find myself thinking I should be more like that, or more like this.  To this day it absolutely baffles my nugget that I used to be and think that way, because honestly when it comes to … Continue reading I have no desire to fit in


Is my Vagina normal?

*Disclaimer; this post contains in depth talk of vaginas, vagina flaps, and erm pretty much just vaginas in a nut shell. If one is easily offended by the word vagina or flaps, do not continue. You have been warned* Is my Vagina normal? The 4 bold words that have recently left my lips and the … Continue reading Is my Vagina normal?

7 Things to do to kick start the New Year!

2019. A fresh year. A chance to do over, start over - a clean slate. Which yes, we could do at any point in life, but lets face it - there is something really empowering and motivating about a new year.  This year I wasn't rocking a hangover on new year's day......ok, lets be real … Continue reading 7 Things to do to kick start the New Year!

Grow through what you go through!

Approaching the end of the year has had me in deep thought, reflecting back upon the year and what a shit show it’s been........ I really had high hopes for this year....well when I say high hopes - I mean I was actually convinced this year would be ‘THE’ year. I guess, we all say … Continue reading Grow through what you go through!

20 ways to become more Carefree & Happy!

Over thinking & over caring has been 2 major factors in my personality. It's not been doing me any favours, so lately I've been on a mission to be more carefree and live in the moment more. I've been feeling lighter, laughing louder and life's becoming easier....here's what's helped me. 1. Is it going to … Continue reading 20 ways to become more Carefree & Happy!


Hey Guys! So following my new Blog name... LIFE OF LIL. I have decided to finally give YouTube another go, because let's face it, my last attempt completely flopped. But I feel like I got my head in the game and you know what they say, if at first you don't succeed try try again! … Continue reading GET TO KNOW ME!🎥

Back to ME!

Hey Guys,  Been a while huh? ..... well I am back and I am back with a vengeance and erm a re-brand. Goodbye 'SugarCoatedNothings' and hello 'LIFE OF LIL' #LOL  Let me slow down and explain.  Basically in a nutshell, I lost myself. I lost my way and lost sight of what it is I … Continue reading Back to ME!

Living Filter Free

Filters. Something that started as a bit of Snapchat fun. The world went crazy for dog ears, butterflies over our heads & funny faces. Although slightly worrying when I found myself preferring the way I looked as a pig. I mean that should have been a warning sign then eh? But as most warning signs … Continue reading Living Filter Free

Lessons I have learnt being raised by a single Mumma!

Forget comic characters, pop stars, and celebs. My inspiration, the person I’ve always looked up to and admired has always been my mumma. When I think of a real life super hero, she comes to mind. Here’s what I’ve learnt being raised by the strongest woman I know: Women can DIY too! Much to the … Continue reading Lessons I have learnt being raised by a single Mumma!

What if old ways DO open new doors?

We all know that saying - old ways do not open new doors and up until lately I have completely supported and agreed with this statement. But did you notice how I said up until lately? Let me explain.... I am all for changes, change is good. Even if in the moment it doesn't seem … Continue reading What if old ways DO open new doors?